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by Dana
Tue Mar 08, 2011 5:24 pm
Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
Topic: Being bitter...holding a grudge
Replies: 26
Views: 7161

Re: Being bitter...holding a grudge

This is such a big topic. There are so many of us. I remember how a friend told me of how he was singled out for abuse by his father as the family scape goat. He didn't become an alcoholic but rather chose heroin until sometime in his mid twenties. When he was working at the jail farm he looked up a...
by Dana
Tue Mar 08, 2011 5:08 pm
Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
Topic: Being bitter...holding a grudge
Replies: 26
Views: 7161

Re: Being bitter...holding a grudge

the guide to the bodhisattvas way of life by santideva has some great verses to reflect upon. its a simple small step, but it will help. all the best :good: OK Keith! I'll see you and raise you one... The Wheel of Sharp Weapons by Shantarakshita (sure hope I spelled that right.) My best teacher sai...
by Dana
Mon Mar 07, 2011 6:50 pm
Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
Topic: Being bitter...holding a grudge
Replies: 26
Views: 7161

Re: Being bitter...holding a grudge

Yes, me too. I had a repressive, abusive, autocratic Dad who I hated as a youngster enough to leave home at age 16 to start working and a life of my own. I did return to his house briefly about a year later but then got married and moved away across the country and saw him only one more time before ...
by Dana
Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:04 pm
Forum: Meditation
Topic: The Buddha: Garlic is Bad for Yogis on Meditation!
Replies: 26
Views: 16355

Re: The Buddha: Garlic is Bad for Yogis on Meditation!

Here is an excerpt from the chapter "Bodhisattva Development into Buddhahood" from the Surangama Sutra on consuming the 5 pungent roots. :popcorn: ‘ ânanda, all beings live if they eat wholesome food and die if they take poison. In their search for Samàdhi, they should abstain from eating...
by Dana
Sat Oct 16, 2010 3:47 pm
Forum: Sūtra Studies
Topic: emptiness simple
Replies: 74
Views: 17259

Re: emptiness simple

I have rarely seen such patience in real life as in this thread where lovely patience persists despite all efforts at refusal of logic and reason. Many bows in your direction, Amelius. Many would have lost it long ago in the face of such obstinance. If we exerted as much effort at trying to really u...
by Dana
Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:54 am
Forum: Zen
Topic: Zen stories
Replies: 37
Views: 10641

Re: Zen stories

Actually, rather than this story coming from Ikkyu (~~ 14th century), the original comes from Kasmir in about the first century BCE. Probably a few dozen different teachers have been accredited with this story over the last two thousand years. Thanks for the info, Ven. Huifeng. I think that many st...
by Dana
Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:41 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Boggle du jour
Replies: 5
Views: 1920

Re: Boggle du jour

Funny how someone else's karmic happenstances.....catmic?
can make us laugh.
I hope it helps us laugh at ourselves a little more easily too!

The sarge, yes but I await the Inspector. :smile:

D
by Dana
Fri Apr 30, 2010 3:30 pm
Forum: Gelug
Topic: Wheel of Sharp Weapons
Replies: 7
Views: 3368

Re: Wheel of Sharp Weapons

My best, and now departed teacher said that the wheel was where she looked whenever she encountered difficulty in her life.
First to see what lay at fault and then to see what the remedy was.
A friend loves the drama and has memorized it.

D
by Dana
Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:28 am
Forum: Mahāyāna Buddhism
Topic: The Amazing Marathon Monks!
Replies: 22
Views: 8648

Re: The Amazing Marathon Monks!

But that aside, at least a month and a half I do spend in wilderness currently every year, much of it engaged due to topography altitude....."

This view Ron? :twothumbsup: :thinking: :namaste:
It seems an exquisite place to go to practice tho arduous getting there.

D
by Dana
Thu Jan 28, 2010 2:01 pm
Forum: Mahāyāna Buddhism
Topic: The Amazing Marathon Monks!
Replies: 22
Views: 8648

Re: The Amazing Marathon Monks!

So fire away....say it is wrong., I don't give a fig on that opinion. I can substantiate it very easily within the school from which it is derived, and that is a Buddhist school indeed. You know if it's right or a wrong practice for you, I'd guess and hope that no one judges you in that way. Reques...
by Dana
Thu Jan 28, 2010 1:26 pm
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: Animals in Haiti Need a Click Too
Replies: 0
Views: 842

Animals in Haiti Need a Click Too

http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clic ... s?siteId=3" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

I was sent this message saying they need help with getting enough numbers of clicks to be effective.

D
by Dana
Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:20 pm
Forum: Mahāyāna Buddhism
Topic: The Amazing Marathon Monks!
Replies: 22
Views: 8648

Re: The Amazing Marathon Monks!

This sort of thing seems to be extreme and far from the middle way at first glance and would likely be way over the top for most of us. Perhaps tho, it is suitable and a middle way for those whose energy is so powerful and disturbed that this is the only way to get some degree of control or quiescen...
by Dana
Thu Jan 21, 2010 2:15 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Anyone familiar with the Comox Valley BC?
Replies: 3
Views: 1729

Re: Anyone familiar with the Comox Valley BC?

http://www.kathokgonpa.ca/directions.php" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Yes, off the Alberni Hwy right, at Butterfly World, right at Grafton and down a ways to the left, across from the organic blueberry farm.

D
by Dana
Sun Jan 10, 2010 12:08 am
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails
Replies: 20
Views: 6647

Re: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails

" I'd guess the involuntary nature of the confinement(for no good purpose) has a very real effect upon the result. " Yes, and imagine the change in perspective if one is so fortunate as to come into contact with a spiritual tradition that helps one in such dire circumstances. It is often s...
by Dana
Wed Jan 06, 2010 4:40 pm
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails
Replies: 20
Views: 6647

Re: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails

Good Morning Ron, Your quote at bottom is an apt one for this topic. That wilderness being like the advice given to sit on the edge of a well in order to stay awake while meditating and seems like the heightened awareness necessary to remain safe in prison. Recently I heard a discussion on the topic...
by Dana
Mon Jan 04, 2010 5:57 pm
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails
Replies: 20
Views: 6647

Re: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails

Yes Ron, I think it would be an aid to practice for sure if one knew they were 'stuck' in prison for a long time. The one person I knew who did time did say that learning to follow his breath gave him something that was not controlled by anyone else. What karma tho to be put inside - fortunate or un...
by Dana
Sat Jan 02, 2010 6:54 pm
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails
Replies: 20
Views: 6647

Re: Buddhism is fastest-growing religion in English jails

Hi, In the past, in the US many inmates found Islam while they were incarcerated. I know this to be a religion that employs violence when it is felt 'need be'. In more recent years, Thubten Chodron, http://www.thubtenchodron.org/PrisonDharma/index.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);retu...
by Dana
Wed Nov 04, 2009 6:49 pm
Forum: Mahāyāna Buddhism
Topic: The Six Paramitas (Perfections)
Replies: 16
Views: 5515

Re: The Six Paramitas (Perfections)

Every teaching I have ever had by any lama always started with an introductory note on Bodhichitta . Sometimes this intro would be of great length, the higher the teacher, the longer this topic would be used as an intro to the teaching. Bodhicitta and dedication of merit. All in Mahayana that i have...
by Dana
Tue Nov 03, 2009 5:33 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Aha! I found you guys!
Replies: 3
Views: 1523

Aha! I found you guys!

I see many names I recognize. I see that some of us keep the same tags as we move around the web. Nice. Have been missing the conversations on Buddhism in all its aspects lately as E-sangha is down for a long time now. I have been on ordinary forums here & there recently and have been sadly disa...
by Dana
Tue Nov 03, 2009 5:18 pm
Forum: Engaged Buddhism
Topic: A Challenge to Buddhists
Replies: 4
Views: 2358

Re: A Challenge to Buddhists

Hi Zoltan, An ingenious idea! But too many cons out there are there not? Who would believe you? How about a public challenge to others to participate in a group meditation venture of some sort as the kids do here at the high school for hunger where they hang out and fast together for a while to know...

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