A few days ago, I had a death in the family. The husband of my second cousin once removed died. He had been suffering in terrible pain for some time, and the doctors were unable to prescribe him painkillers to help. Now, I knew that he was unwell and unhappy, and was not upset or shocked to hear of his passing. I was simply very, very sad, and worried for my grandmother, her little sister (his mother-in-law), his wife (my second cousin once removed), and his daughter (my second cousin)
I know "husband of my second cousin once removed" does not sound like a close relation, but this man was...blood to me. I feel the karmic tie to everyone in my family, and I especially feel it with this branch of the family. My great-aunt is like a second grandmother to me (which is good, because my first grandmother is more like a sister and a mother combined). My cousins are like sisters to me, both of them. And this man was definitely family.
The circumstances of his death were not fortunate. He was in great pain and despair. Therefore, I want to ask for prayers that he find a fortunate rebirth, one where he will not have to struggle with his old demons, and where his pain will not ultimately undo him. I ask for prayers that my cousin Kent be reborn with a precious human life, one untroubled by the demons of addiction or chronic pain. And I ask for prayers that he be reborn in such a way that allows him to find peace in the Dharma.
Thank you
