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by Kunga Lhadzom
Wed Jul 19, 2017 10:43 pm
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

Got A Feeling / James Brown

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by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Feb 20, 2017 9:08 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

I'm not sure if anyone cares about what has been going on with my situation, but I feel as though I need to give everyone who posted or commented on the post and update. At this very moment things between me and the other person is ending. Thing have almost come to a head and as a resulted of our l...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Tue Jan 10, 2017 11:37 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

The issue with bringing in western Christian / judeo culture is guilt and blame. Oy Vey !!! I'm so emeshed in it, i honestly didn't realize i was doing that !!!! (Now i understand ) :bow: :bow: :bow: I'm as hard on myself as i am with others...thank you Punya :heart: Sorry ChrisK for being so hard ...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Tue Jan 10, 2017 6:31 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

Last night I watched this movie (on Netflix ) I thought it was revelent. Sexual misconduct is a big deal in Buddhism, just in case someone wants to claim it's only Western Christian / Judeo culture that gets uptight about it.... ADULTERERS : https://youtu.be/l6l4sRaIm3g It's a film produced in the ...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Tue Jan 10, 2017 4:38 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

Last night I watched this movie (on Netflix )
I thought it was revelent. Sexual misconduct is a big deal in Buddhism, just in case someone wants to claim it's only Western Christian / Judeo culture that gets uptight about it....

ADULTERERS :

https://youtu.be/l6l4sRaIm3g
by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Jan 09, 2017 5:45 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

Sometimes wrathful compassion is more effective. When you see someone walking into the street when a truck is comming, you don't sweetly coax them out of danger....you yell at them to watch out . My "go F. Yourself ", comment should have been removed....i was surprised it wasn't. ... In the spirit ...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Jan 09, 2017 5:10 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

Sometimes wrathful compassion is more effective.
When you see someone walking into the street when a truck is comming, you don't sweetly coax them out of danger....you yell at them to watch out .

My "go F. Yourself ", comment should have been removed....i was surprised it wasn't. ...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Jan 09, 2017 3:22 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

I wasted 26 years of my life because he couldn't be honest with me, and I discovered his secret on my own....the betrayal and wasted time, makes me furious. Had he confessed his secret life to me, or had I REALLY LISTENED TO MY INTUITION, I would of been better off. Lies and betrayal of this type ar...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sun Jan 08, 2017 12:19 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

shaunc wrote:Buddha had concubines when he was a prince,
Yeah, but it was concensual...not decietful/betraying to anyone involved...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sun Jan 08, 2017 12:15 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

Morality is one of the Six Perfections. So what, if someone does his practice... and then rapes and murders.... What would you consider to have better outcome: A. Someone rapes and murders. B. Someone rapes and murders and does zazen. I think the latter has the better chances advance on the path th...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sat Jan 07, 2017 8:16 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

boda wrote:if my wife had the occasional sexual liaison I wouldn't mind. It's just sex,
Ha !

What if she fell in love ?
Or gave you an STD ?
Or got prego ?
Or you got jealous and wanted to kill her/him ?
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sat Jan 07, 2017 7:19 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

most of these comments stem from the background of judeo-christian culture; ie. they don't necessarily reflect buddhist values, Sorry...but I was commenting from personal experience....I grew up respecting all cultures, and also experienced being with people from many cultures from an early age... ...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sat Jan 07, 2017 7:14 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

You owe your wife a full explanation. Wouldn't it be more compassionate to not divulge information that would prove painful to her? Speaking for myself, I'd much rather be let go of gently than confronted by a painful admission of unfaithfullness. Men that cheat are not capable of compassion, if th...
by Kunga Lhadzom
Thu Jan 05, 2017 1:52 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Adultery and Being a Buddhist
Replies: 127
Views: 7785

Re: Adultery and Being a Buddhist

these good people that spoke kindly and reserved are not like me.....i have been to hell and back because of men like you....cheaters...go F yourself.
by Kunga Lhadzom
Thu Jan 05, 2017 1:36 am
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

I'll Save he Last Dance For You / Damita Jo

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by Kunga Lhadzom
Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:41 am
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

The House OF The Rising Sun / The Animals

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by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Jan 02, 2017 4:14 am
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

Super FREAK / RICK JAMES


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by Kunga Lhadzom
Mon Jan 02, 2017 4:12 am
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

:heart:
by Kunga Lhadzom
Sun Jan 01, 2017 3:31 am
Forum: Games & Humour
Topic: Song Name Game
Replies: 373
Views: 23300

Re: Song Name Game

LA LA LA / SHAKIRA

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