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by Ayu
Fri Jun 22, 2018 8:21 pm
Forum: Tibetan Buddhism
Topic: How to NOT annoy the guru?
Replies: 16
Views: 546

Re: How to NOT annoy the guru?

You should read more. There are plenty of Buddhist tantras giving spells and advice how to curse, kill etc. Of course, successful application presumes you are indeed a practitioner of the tantric vehicle. Which presumes you have the right view as well as samayas. ' Enemies' of the doctrine are not ...
by Ayu
Fri Jun 22, 2018 7:15 am
Forum: Tibetan Buddhism
Topic: How to NOT annoy the guru?
Replies: 16
Views: 546

Re: How to NOT annoy the guru?

I never saw my guru being annoyed due to lack of time. He get's annoyed slightly when the question reveals that the questioner has not understood anything of what he was teaching for months. Or he also seems to be discontent as soon as I'm too fond of myself. He dislikes arrogance and superiority co...
by Ayu
Tue Jun 19, 2018 3:31 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: TRUCK FUMP
Replies: 124
Views: 2373

Re: TRUCK FUMP

It is difficult to understand that they are considered to be criminal. If you simply try to protect your children and you don't harm anybody, why are you a criminal then? Those illegal immegrants thought to flee an insecure country and reach a secure country. They obviously didn't know that there is...
by Ayu
Tue Jun 19, 2018 7:24 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: Help me with a difficult family conversation.
Replies: 19
Views: 363

Re: Help me with a difficult family conversation.

When I was vegetarian for 13 years, I learned to avoid these kinds of conversations. People got upset quickly when I explained why I did not eat meat. They responded: "But you should not drink coffee then!" Or "You still eat chocolate!!!" I learned, not to explain anything to people who would feel u...
by Ayu
Tue Jun 19, 2018 6:56 am
Forum: Lounge
Topic: TRUCK FUMP
Replies: 124
Views: 2373

Re: TRUCK FUMP

Ah, sory then.
In Germany they only talked about the G7 mess and the substanceless meeting with Kim Yong Un. We do not hear anything about the health insurance mess and nothing at all about this cruelty at the border.

Right now there is nothing but soccer WC broadcasting day and night.
by Ayu
Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:48 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: TRUCK FUMP
Replies: 124
Views: 2373

Re: TRUCK FUMP

What about this? https://www.hrw.org/news/2018/06/18/whatever-what-happens-kids-taken-families-us-border (Human Rights Watch about what is happening to immegrant's children right now in the South of USA.) How is it possible that these inhuman practices take place and nobody talks about it? :?: :thin...
by Ayu
Mon Jun 18, 2018 8:28 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: My new neighbor
Replies: 32
Views: 933

Re: My new neighbor

Try to see her as a normal human being nevertheless. :)
by Ayu
Sun Jun 17, 2018 9:48 am
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: My new neighbor
Replies: 32
Views: 933

Re: My new neighbor

I recommend earplugs and dark sunglasses. Maybe you can invite some friends to your cottage as well? I don't think the earplugs or dark glasses would really help. If I had some friends it would be good though, to kind of go through this experience with me. Thanks for the suggestions. Why is this su...
by Ayu
Sun Jun 17, 2018 9:32 am
Forum: Tibetan Buddhism
Topic: Western Monastic - reasons why she left
Replies: 40
Views: 1342

Re: Western Monastic - reasons why she left

.... However, maybe since you have Gelug background you could tell us here more how it works as I believe Gelug has probably most focus on monastics. All I know: it's difficult. People try to sort out financial sponsors before they ordain. Some have spared money from good jobs in their former life ...
by Ayu
Sat Jun 16, 2018 7:16 pm
Forum: Tibetan Buddhism
Topic: Western Monastic - reasons why she left
Replies: 40
Views: 1342

Re: Western Monastic - reasons why she left

Miroku wrote:
Thu Jun 14, 2018 1:46 pm
...
Also do you agree that in the west there should be created an ordained community of westerners?
No, ordained should not seperate due to nationality. But desperately a system of financial support for western monks and nuns is needed.
by Ayu
Sat Jun 16, 2018 7:10 pm
Forum: Ethical Conduct
Topic: My new neighbor
Replies: 32
Views: 933

Re: My new neighbor

I recommend earplugs and dark sunglasses.

Maybe you can invite some friends to your cottage as well?
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 8:17 pm
Forum: Suggestion Box
Topic: Font Size on Profile?
Replies: 5
Views: 377

Re: Font Size on Profile?

How does one open up the Profile Signature? There is no part here in the edits. Index page ---> Private messages, there in the left above: profile ---> in the middle: edit whatever, i.e. signature, avatar and so on. There's only occupation and interests here, nothing else. No signature. Okay, you'r...
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:22 pm
Forum: News & Current Events
Topic: Competitive meditators...
Replies: 26
Views: 765

Re: Competitive meditators...

[ Fun aside. For me the imagination of being inspired by a modern alarmclock is strange (foreign). I couldn't use that, I think, but I don't need it either. For me inspiration is an internal affair and the discussions sometimes with my poor mood to start are part of the process. But many people see...
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 12:41 pm
Forum: Suggestion Box
Topic: Font Size on Profile?
Replies: 5
Views: 377

Re: Font Size on Profile?

Tenma wrote:
Mon Jun 11, 2018 11:10 pm
How does one open up the Profile Signature? There is no part here in the edits.
Index page ---> Private messages, there in the left above: profile ---> in the middle: edit whatever, i.e. signature, avatar and so on.
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:44 am
Forum: News & Current Events
Topic: Competitive meditators...
Replies: 26
Views: 765

Re: Competitive meditators...

I've committed to sit every day in 2018. I'm not in a competition, but one thing that has definitely come into play is that every day I get a reminder from Insight Timer app 'you've completed 165 days straight' (or whatever the count is of today's date). So - if I miss a day, then it's going to tak...
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:36 am
Forum: News & Current Events
Topic: Competitive meditators...
Replies: 26
Views: 765

Re: Competitive meditators...

muni wrote:
Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:54 am
(Does my English worsen?)
No dear, it is almost as good as mine. I guarantee it.
:lol:
by Ayu
Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:34 am
Forum: News & Current Events
Topic: Competitive meditators...
Replies: 26
Views: 765

Re: Competitive meditators...

Anders wrote:
Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:49 am
dzogchungpa wrote:
Thu Jun 14, 2018 1:48 am
All modesty aside, I am almost certainly one of the least competitive meditators in the world.
BS! I am less competitive than you and I have the total lack of any attainment to back it up.
Braggarts! :tongue:
by Ayu
Thu Jun 14, 2018 9:19 pm
Forum: News & Current Events
Topic: Competitive meditators...
Replies: 26
Views: 765

Re: Competitive meditators...

dzogchungpa wrote:
Thu Jun 14, 2018 1:48 am
All modesty aside, I am almost certainly one of the least competitive meditators in the world.
Competition about who is the least I find common amongst Buddhists. It's equally difficult like being the best, because only one can be the last.

(Does my English worsen?)
by Ayu
Sun Jun 10, 2018 10:40 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Dharma Wheel (Engaged)
Replies: 33
Views: 1389

Re: Dharma Wheel (Engaged)

I registered yesterday and haven't seen any altright views yet.
by Ayu
Mon Jun 04, 2018 9:20 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello from Washington
Replies: 5
Views: 177

Re: Hello from Washington

... I have but one question for anyone whom is much more experienced practitioner in Buddhism, where should a beginner start and how should they start. ... Welcome to Dharmawheel, Cosmicdust32. :hi: Just relax and start from where you are. I.e. start with what is interesting for you. Buddhism is ma...

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