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- Fri Jun 30, 2017 3:47 am
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Better
- Replies: 11
- Views: 2811
Re: Better
There is a general perception that all the improvements in daily life from learning Dharma is an attainable achievement from self. But then again we talk about being without self. Recently I had asked myself on why I would walk the path of Buddhism, and for whom did I continue the path of Buddhism; ...
- Mon Jun 26, 2017 5:21 pm
- Forum: Meditation
- Topic: Failing at meditation
- Replies: 18
- Views: 6872
Re: Failing at meditation
When I meditate, my thoughts are like storms. I don't know if I'm supposed to observe them or force them away or just concentrate so much on the present that they are made impossible to appear. What is the best way? Sounds silly to ask, there are probably many ways. The mind works similarly to an o...
- Wed May 21, 2014 3:28 pm
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Reaching the unconscious mind
- Replies: 114
- Views: 17435
Re: Reaching the unconscious mind
Good evening to you Rachmiel, Pardon me for not following the discussions, but your topic interest me. What you are talking about the unconscious mind is perhaps referring to be the same as the subconscious mind? For an example, a person would not throw litters, not because he obey the law, he just ...
- Sun Sep 29, 2013 3:01 pm
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Loosing my way on the path.
- Replies: 22
- Views: 4351
Re: Loosing my way on the path.
Hey Deep Fried, Great to hear your story and your success of coming from a tough life. Acknowledging, Knowing that you would not want to lose it and going back to your self that your losing your way is a great start. Here are some questions for you. How did you get home and to work? Is it by Car or ...
- Sun Sep 29, 2013 1:55 pm
- Forum: Lounge
- Topic: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
- Replies: 109
- Views: 22144
Re: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
The term "view" is quite important in Buddhism, but again, it's not a view from within "existence". if that is true it's hard to apply until you are alive There are no guarantees, simply a map and compass and the chance to discover for yourself. that's what every other religion ...
- Sun Sep 29, 2013 5:13 am
- Forum: Lounge
- Topic: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
- Replies: 109
- Views: 22144
Re: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
Great wisdom from PadmaVonSamba
Totally agree.
Totally agree.
- Sat Sep 28, 2013 8:30 pm
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Making choices.
- Replies: 10
- Views: 2570
Re: Making choices.
Good Morning Lordneg, You have made a really brave decision. That is a really a great choice of telling the truth instead of lying. I praise you for your decision to confront to your fears. What is more important is on how you view the outcome of her decision. In this world, everyone do not want to ...
- Sat Sep 28, 2013 12:37 pm
- Forum: Lounge
- Topic: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
- Replies: 109
- Views: 22144
Re: I have some proof here that there's no afterlife
Good Evening Grandy, Thank you for your time and effort in digging out all these links, they are indeed very interesting and a good concept to cover. I am not so sure what is taught or what you have learn regarding the rebirth concept in Buddhism, various schools could have taught this differently. ...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:55 pm
- Forum: Help Required
- Topic: Slipped (anger) foolishness
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3209
Re: Slipped (anger) foolishness
After mediation, my anger seems to have gone away. But sometime ealier week I had a bad arguement with my mum, I wasn't feeling angry, but rather I felt to attach in trying to justify a point to her. It as then I notice beside mediation, conditioning of the body is somewhat important as well, I was ...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 7:39 pm
- Forum: Help Required
- Topic: white lies
- Replies: 28
- Views: 10180
Re: white lies
Good Morning Johnny, This is a great topic you have brought up. And this covers the five precept on not lying. I understand that you have lie before, I also lie to avoid conflict prior to my practising to my Dharma. After practising the Dharma, it is then I understand that no matter what the lies, t...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 2:45 pm
- Forum: Help Required
- Topic: Confusion and negativity
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1900
Re: Confusion and negativity
Hello Duck, It is great to know you have so much compassion that you even let them stay with you. This person, although lying to you, is him leading his wrong way not of not to suffer. In a way through compassion and kindness we hope that he can see your compassion and change himself as a result, bu...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:00 pm
- Forum: Help Required
- Topic: Self hatred
- Replies: 37
- Views: 8896
Re: Self hatred
Hello Konchog, You have posted a great topic that I am interested in. I am glad that you did not suicide and share your troubles with us here. My story in suicide is similar to yours. I have experience of the thoughts of suicide before in the past. I was living a really stressful life last time, my ...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 12:39 pm
- Forum: Lounge
- Topic: Everyone wants to feel good!
- Replies: 11
- Views: 3758
Re: Everyone wants to feel good!
Good greeting to you! This is a great and interesting post by you. Here are my conclusion and what I practice in regards to your point. In short "Everyone do not want to suffer" "Everyone wants to be praised" "Everyone wants their point to be agree on" "Everyone wa...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 10:54 am
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Making choices.
- Replies: 10
- Views: 2570
Re: Making choices.
Hello and Good Greetings to you Lorgneg, Welcome to the forum and welcome being a dharma practitioner. My suggestion to you is to be honest with her and accept the outcome. As a Buddhist we should know and understand of the 5 precepts, not lying, is one of the precepts to follow. This is because not...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 9:45 am
- Forum: Dharma in Everyday Life
- Topic: Meditation and Music?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2161
Re: Meditation and Music?
Hey welcome, I am also new to this forum. I hope you enjoy your stay here. I feel that an alternative to meditate with music is to listen to some guided meditation. http://www.audiodharma.org/series/1/talk/1835/ What I only use for my meditation is the mediation timer http://audiodharma.org/series/2...
- Fri Sep 27, 2013 8:31 am
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: Hello Everyone, Greetings from Singapore - Here is my story
- Replies: 0
- Views: 767
Hello Everyone, Greetings from Singapore - Here is my story
Hello Everyone, I am from Singapore, 26 years old this year. Nice to meet all of you. Below is my little story on life on religion. I join this forum due to my interest on Buddhism grew. I was a born as in the family following the Taoism tradition. From young till 24 years old, I was a free thinker....