What Have You Learned
What Have You Learned
What are some teachings, perspectives, experiences, or whatever that you have learned a long your walk on the path that have made a lasting and very profound impact in your life?
Recently I was posting on The Dao Bums forum and someone addressed my "Sky Gazing" post and included a beautiful Chinese Taoist painting with diverse life and water falls and dimensions and what looks like the seeker within his own painting.
He said this was sky gazing in his tradition and it was a good and powerful message to remember the relative is the absolute.
It made me think, what have you all experienced and maybe this can really help each of us grow by cutting through the usual questions and answers and getting to the guts of our own lives
Recently I was posting on The Dao Bums forum and someone addressed my "Sky Gazing" post and included a beautiful Chinese Taoist painting with diverse life and water falls and dimensions and what looks like the seeker within his own painting.
He said this was sky gazing in his tradition and it was a good and powerful message to remember the relative is the absolute.
It made me think, what have you all experienced and maybe this can really help each of us grow by cutting through the usual questions and answers and getting to the guts of our own lives
Practice, Practice, Practice
Re: What Have You Learned
I guess I've learned to take my dramas a little less seriously.
There are still things that push my buttons, of course, things I haven't seen into deeply enough to uproot the attachment/aversion-self dynamics. There are still narratives that persist. But their stranglehold has loosened, so I don't get stuck in the rut as much.
For instance right now I am dealing with a very ambitious boss giving both a colleague and myself a very hard time. We've worked for months for free (this is a start-up) and we are close to completion of the prototype, but rather than be happy and rejoice in our joint accomplishment, she is turning this into a very tense and unpleasant situation. My inclination is to walk away, but I also owe my family who've all been doing it tough sacrificing even basic things, a chance of finally having some money (like for kids to have winter shoes, etc). So I persevere as long as possible, just for this chance, under a barrage of negativity. Sometimes even with a smile.
It's not much, but hey... it's a lot for me.
_/|\_
There are still things that push my buttons, of course, things I haven't seen into deeply enough to uproot the attachment/aversion-self dynamics. There are still narratives that persist. But their stranglehold has loosened, so I don't get stuck in the rut as much.
For instance right now I am dealing with a very ambitious boss giving both a colleague and myself a very hard time. We've worked for months for free (this is a start-up) and we are close to completion of the prototype, but rather than be happy and rejoice in our joint accomplishment, she is turning this into a very tense and unpleasant situation. My inclination is to walk away, but I also owe my family who've all been doing it tough sacrificing even basic things, a chance of finally having some money (like for kids to have winter shoes, etc). So I persevere as long as possible, just for this chance, under a barrage of negativity. Sometimes even with a smile.
It's not much, but hey... it's a lot for me.
_/|\_
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Basically: conditions that I experience as difficult, challenging, fearful, uncomfortable, etc. reveal only my own deficits.
~ Meido
~ Meido
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Nothing. Everything.
Beyond that doozy...
The world is a whole lot less solid than I *want* it to be. Sometimes I can think myself into a moment of existential vertigo, perched at the precipice of being. And then, letting go usually takes care of that. And then I'm back to the old samsara game, shooting marbles in a burning house.
Beyond that doozy...
The world is a whole lot less solid than I *want* it to be. Sometimes I can think myself into a moment of existential vertigo, perched at the precipice of being. And then, letting go usually takes care of that. And then I'm back to the old samsara game, shooting marbles in a burning house.
There is no suffering to be severed. Ignorance and klesas are indivisible from bodhi. There is no cause of suffering to be abandoned. Since extremes and the false are the Middle and genuine, there is no path to be practiced. Samsara is nirvana. No severance achieved. No suffering nor its cause. No path, no end. There is no transcendent realm; there is only the one true aspect. There is nothing separate from the true aspect.
-Guanding, Perfect and Sudden Contemplation,
-Guanding, Perfect and Sudden Contemplation,
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Keep going. The inkling I had at the beginning that the dharma was amazing is true, so keep at it.
Pay attention to teachers and senior students. They have something, and you can learn from it.
In the Vajrayana, there's a feeling of "on" or "off the path." Pay attention to that.
Jake
Pay attention to teachers and senior students. They have something, and you can learn from it.
In the Vajrayana, there's a feeling of "on" or "off the path." Pay attention to that.
Jake
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Acceptance.
When walking, standing, sitting, lying down, speaking,
being silent, moving, being still.
At all times, in all places, without interruption - what is this?
One mind is infinite kalpas.
New Haven Zen Center
being silent, moving, being still.
At all times, in all places, without interruption - what is this?
One mind is infinite kalpas.
New Haven Zen Center
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I think the most important thing I've learned in my long and cockeyed path is how little I really know about ... pretty much everything.
Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily ...
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Wishing you the bestDan74 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 9:51 pm I guess I've learned to take my dramas a little less seriously.
There are still things that push my buttons, of course, things I haven't seen into deeply enough to uproot the attachment/aversion-self dynamics. There are still narratives that persist. But their stranglehold has loosened, so I don't get stuck in the rut as much.
For instance right now I am dealing with a very ambitious boss giving both a colleague and myself a very hard time. We've worked for months for free (this is a start-up) and we are close to completion of the prototype, but rather than be happy and rejoice in our joint accomplishment, she is turning this into a very tense and unpleasant situation. My inclination is to walk away, but I also owe my family who've all been doing it tough sacrificing even basic things, a chance of finally having some money (like for kids to have winter shoes, etc). So I persevere as long as possible, just for this chance, under a barrage of negativity. Sometimes even with a smile.
It's not much, but hey... it's a lot for me.
_/|\_
This is the big one I am finding. In particular inter-personal dynamics when you can't just stop talking to the person or get away from them. I am learning the back drop I thought was the objective one of "Truth" is just another shadow of my self and all it's short comings.
Haha Amen
Practice, Practice, Practice
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According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
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I couldn't agree more. Seems real practice has to hit the road at a certain point and that is about elementary stuff in my case and it seems many of those much better than I.TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:41 pm According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
P.s. Hope your practice goes well Despite all the lameness of many conversations and such within this forum and the general Buddhist community I have always enjoyed your input and I think it is important as common sense and a kind heart can brighten and remind people of what's really important versus getting lost in concept and language games.
Practice, Practice, Practice
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Basically...TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:41 pm According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
Kevin
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Yep, I think common sense isn't so common and the elementary stuff really is important. And likewise, your input has come across as very genuine hearted and nice to see.CedarTree wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:45 pmI couldn't agree more. Seems real practice has to hit the road at a certain point and that is about elementary stuff in my case and it seems many of those much better than I.TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:41 pm According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
P.s. Hope your practice goes well Despite all the lameness of many conversations and such within this forum and the general Buddhist community I have always enjoyed your input and I think it is important as common sense and a kind heart can brighten and remind people of what's really important versus getting lost in concept and language games.
The things that inspired us originally about Buddhism shouldn't be dimished by all this dissension. I don't know if you're American, but it's kind of similar to how people in the US feel about the current political climate. you can be dragged into apathy or use this as motivation to try harder to achieve the big dream of hope, wisdom, compassion.
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Cheers on being our new moderatorVirgo wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:47 pmBasically...TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:41 pm According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
Kevin
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Aw thankyou.TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Thu Nov 09, 2017 12:20 amCheers on being our new moderatorVirgo wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:47 pmBasically...TharpaChodron wrote: ↑Wed Nov 08, 2017 11:41 pm According to my current mood, I've learned the most basic elements of Buddhadharma are key and all this Buddhadrama is a distraction, not helpful at all imo. As the controversies seem to swell, I feel disheartened by my fellow practitioners, so it's back to basics for me.
Kevin
Kevin
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Whatever it is, let it go.
Relax.
Do your best and don't worry.
Relax.
Do your best and don't worry.
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The power of mantra.
There is not only nothingness because there is always, and always can manifest. - Thinley Norbu Rinpoche
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Get busy doing nothing.
Generally, enjoyment of speech is the gateway to poor [results]. So it becomes the foundation for generating all negative emotional states. Jampel Pawo, The Certainty of the Diamond Mind
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In my own experience, that it can take a lifetime to learn not to be a total jerk.
EMPTIFUL.
An inward outlook produces outward insight.
An inward outlook produces outward insight.
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PadmaVonSamba wrote: ↑Thu Nov 09, 2017 4:19 am In my own experience, that it can take a lifetime to learn not to be a total jerk.
oh you lucky-one...
for some it could take more than one lifetime
Lost In Transmission
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I find something that happens time and time again, is just when I think I've learning something really excellent, something will happen - OK, I will do something - that makes me feel like I'm back at square one. Square one is not actually that bad a place, but still. It reminds me a little of the Myth of Sisyphus, all the same.
On a more optimistic note, I have learned the basic significance of being useful to other people, and also of sticking with things until they get done. Another thing is, less emotional reactivity. I learn that whatever comes up, is transient, it's going to pass. That especially helps when you get the blues, when you feel down. A point about feeling down, is that when you're in that space, you can't see anything good, it all looks grey; I have learned that this is transient, that this is just a feeling that will always pass.
That's what comes to mind, anyway.
On a more optimistic note, I have learned the basic significance of being useful to other people, and also of sticking with things until they get done. Another thing is, less emotional reactivity. I learn that whatever comes up, is transient, it's going to pass. That especially helps when you get the blues, when you feel down. A point about feeling down, is that when you're in that space, you can't see anything good, it all looks grey; I have learned that this is transient, that this is just a feeling that will always pass.
That's what comes to mind, anyway.
'Only practice with no gaining idea' ~ Suzuki Roshi