Here is a proper prayer:Today I heard that H.E. Jetsun Kusho suffered from a stroke and is in a hospital in Oregon. I have no further information. Recitation of her long life prayer is appropriate.
HER EMINENCE SAKYA JETSUN CHIMEY LUDING
Through the blessings of an ocean of divinities
Of longevity and immortality
Coming from the celestial race of luminosity
You grant the glory of great bliss
Wealth with the vast activity of tantric vidyadharas,
Chief among dakinis, we supplicate you to live long.
Protectress of the Dharma and of Beings, you arose from
The lineage and the teachings of revered Sakya
The radiant sun of the enlightened one's religion,
Turn fully the Wheel for attaining deathlessness
And make the twofold deeds grow evermore.
Traversing the path of deathless freedom,
Ripen your mind, acquire the fortune of liberation.
May you gaze directly upon the face of reality
And dwell always in joy that does not fail.