Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:41 am

Fortyeightvows wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:39 am
sounds like someone has alot of hang ups about race and class

As a biracial person myself who also attends a Jewish congregation in addition to practicing Buddhism, I have no hangups about race and class. I simply have to share my credentials when I bring up these topics because it ruffles some peoples feathers when they realize how deeply and how far back I actually go in the civil rights battle.

This is me with a man named Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arun_Manilal_Gandhi
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:45 am

Me as a child with my radical feminist mother and my Chicano activist father. He was the only father I knew so I prefer to refer to him as my father but technically speaking he was my stepfather.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:52 am

This is me with Chicano civil rights activist Dolores Huerta. She passed on a message to the family of Cesar Chavez for me. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dolores_Huerta
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Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:56 am

This is my high school graduation class . I'm kind of sort of easy to spot.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 9:00 am

This is a picture in tribute to my late mentor and father figure Dr. Kenneth Wapnick. I wasn't able to attend his memorial, so instead I had this picture taken of me in front of the local Sephardic Jewish temple -- as he was a Sephardic Jew. Personally I am currently studying Humanistic Judaism, which I am told has no conflict with Buddhism.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 9:08 am

Probably my favorite dance picture ever taken of me. This is the ballet school my radical feminist mother forced me into when I was eight years old, shortly after I returned from Japan.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by dharmapdx » Fri Jan 12, 2018 9:53 am

So I think I need to bow out of this thread. I will close with this thought: all I was attempting to suggest is that Confucianism is not likely to meet up with feminism in Asia. But when Confucianism is brought to the United States it is likely to meet up with feminism. And this may have surprising results particularly for people who are not aware of Confucianism or what it is.

Maybe I shouldn't have used the word "feminism" in the title of this thread. Maybe I should have used the term that would pertain to the way women organize their social structure. I don't know if there is a term for that but the older I get the more I realize that women establish a hierarchy in a very different way than men do. Maybe some men who are not aware of Confucianism nor the way women socialize and create social hierarchies will be caught off guard when these two dynamics meet up in a Buddhist temple. That's all I was attempting to suggest.

In closing, the picture of me with Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi. And then the picture of Arun Gandhi with the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King JR III.

✌️ Peace.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by ItsRaining » Fri Jan 12, 2018 1:34 pm

markatex wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:20 am
I got nothing. :shrug:

I’m a gay man, so I’m sure the Confucianists wouldn’t be thrilled with me, and that the MRA people wouldn’t be either, so I’m not exactly sympathetic to their cause, as it were.
I don't think Confucious himself had anything against gay people. The only place gay people and Confucious come up together is when he wrote a eulogy praising a pair of gay lovers who died in battle.

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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by Coëmgenu » Fri Jan 12, 2018 2:01 pm

ItsRaining wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 1:34 pm
markatex wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:20 am
I got nothing. :shrug:

I’m a gay man, so I’m sure the Confucianists wouldn’t be thrilled with me, and that the MRA people wouldn’t be either, so I’m not exactly sympathetic to their cause, as it were.
I don't think Confucious himself had anything against gay people. The only place gay people and Confucious come up together is when he wrote a eulogy praising a pair of gay lovers who died in battle.
Do you happen to know the source text for this?

Perhaps it is just my own cynicism, but I don't think the whole story is being communicated here.

For instance, there is a difference between praising love between two men and praising their homosexual relationship.
並畢竟空。並如來藏。並實相。非三 而三三而不三。非合非散而合而散。非非合非非散。不可一異而一異。
All three truths are ultimately empty, all are tathāgatagarbha, all are true aspect. Not three, they are three; three, they are not three. Neither combined nor separated, neither uncombined nor unseparated. Neither same nor different, yet in a sense same, and in a sense different.

夫三諦者。 天然之性徳也。 中諦者。 統一切法。 眞諦者。 泯一切法。 俗諦者。 立一切法。
The three truths. Heaven-sent natural characteristics. The middle truth unifies all dharmāḥ. The ultimate truth demolishes all dharmāḥ. The conventional truth establishes all dharmāḥ.

摩訶止観始終心要Móhēzhǐguān, Shǐzhōngxīnyào.

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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by Queequeg » Fri Jan 12, 2018 4:11 pm

Fortyeightvows wrote:
Thu Jan 11, 2018 11:37 pm
I think I can safely say, the process of making Buddhist communities more naturally Western is under way.
What does it mean? What does a buddhist community that is naturally western look like?
I don't know. I've seen up close the tension between East Asian organization structures and Americans trying to fit into it and the gradual adjustment as culturally American individuals take leadership positions. What the stasis will look like or or if the structure will be scrapped entirely in favor of the kinds of models you find in mainline Protestant churches, or something else is an open question.

Personally, I like the Quakers' approach. Participatory Action. In contemporary colloquialism, a swarm. I actually think Nichiren had something along those lines in mind for his Sangha - itaidoshin.
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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by DGA » Sat Jan 13, 2018 1:43 am

dharmapdx wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 8:56 am
This is my high school graduation class . I'm kind of sort of easy to spot.
Jefferson High used to be the end of the world. My informants tell me it's becoming an excellent school.

Did you post that photo to wikipedia, by the way? or just a funny coincidence?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jefferson ... n_1994.jpg

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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by DGA » Sat Jan 13, 2018 1:45 am

Queequeg wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 4:11 pm
Fortyeightvows wrote:
Thu Jan 11, 2018 11:37 pm
I think I can safely say, the process of making Buddhist communities more naturally Western is under way.
What does it mean? What does a buddhist community that is naturally western look like?
I don't know. I've seen up close the tension between East Asian organization structures and Americans trying to fit into it and the gradual adjustment as culturally American individuals take leadership positions. What the stasis will look like or or if the structure will be scrapped entirely in favor of the kinds of models you find in mainline Protestant churches, or something else is an open question.

Personally, I like the Quakers' approach. Participatory Action. In contemporary colloquialism, a swarm. I actually think Nichiren had something along those lines in mind for his Sangha - itaidoshin.
This reminds me: I've heard Monshin Paul Naamon (Tendai Buddhist Institute) say more than once that the Quakers sowed the seeds of Dharma on this continent in the way they organized their communities. I didn't follow up on that because I don't know much about the Quakers and I wasn't curious about it. I bring it up to suggest that your idea has merit and is worth probing.

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Re: Confucianism and feminism in Buddhist organizations

Post by ItsRaining » Sun Jan 14, 2018 12:59 am

Coëmgenu wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 2:01 pm
ItsRaining wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 1:34 pm
markatex wrote:
Fri Jan 12, 2018 3:20 am
I got nothing. :shrug:

I’m a gay man, so I’m sure the Confucianists wouldn’t be thrilled with me, and that the MRA people wouldn’t be either, so I’m not exactly sympathetic to their cause, as it were.
I don't think Confucious himself had anything against gay people. The only place gay people and Confucious come up together is when he wrote a eulogy praising a pair of gay lovers who died in battle.
Do you happen to know the source text for this?

Perhaps it is just my own cynicism, but I don't think the whole story is being communicated here.

For instance, there is a difference between praising love between two men and praising their homosexual relationship.
《左传·哀公十一年》
公为与其嬖僮汪锜乘,皆死,皆殡。孔子曰:“能执干戈以卫社稷,可无殇也。”[2]

He doesn't criticise or mention homosexuality anywhere so his actual thoughts on it probably can't be known.

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