A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

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A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

Post by Queequeg » Sun Jul 16, 2017 4:06 pm

I ask everyone, before posting in this forum, or any forum here at DharmaWheel, to please review the Terms of Service for this site as well as the rules for this forum.

Please keep in mind that despite any doctrinal differences, we are all dharma brothers and sisters, and more fundamentally, fellow human beings deserving of profound respect. Recall that Bodhisattva Sadaparibhuta (Never Disparaging; Fukyo) honored all beings as Buddhas and that this was the cause of Shakyamuni's enlightenment in the remote past. Further recall that Nichiren taught that the Daimoku he taught is the same teaching as Bodhisattva Sadaparibhuta.

Before hitting the "Submit" button, think about what you are about to post three times - as Nichiren counseled we should do before saying anything. I will be the first to admit that I need to take this counsel to heart more consistently.

Consider, are you adding substance to the discussion, or are you just venting and giving voice to reactionary emotions? Can what you are wishing to express be conveyed in an artful and constructive way? Is the personally directed comment embedded in your post necessary to your argument? Does that insult or barb encourage open and friendly discussion, or does it have the effect of raising ire and causing enmity? Keep in mind that once discussions take a turn down to personal antagonism, substantive discussions become difficult or impossible and all we are left is an exchange of venom.

The subjects discussed on this forum often touch matters of deep concern to us, and therefore it is even more critical that we keep in mind first and foremost the profound connections we have to each other - we have all been each other's mother and father, son and daughter, lovers and friends. As Sadaparibhuta always honored people, each of our posts should do the same, whether we agree with each other, and even more importantly, when we disagree.

There are many forums across the internet where we are free to indulge our basest impulses, call each other names, spew hate and and unleash venomous insults. If you wish to engage in such demeritorious conduct - which you should understand leaves a deep karmic stain on your life - do it elsewhere. It is not welcome here.

We should realize that the freedom of the internet - indeed life - is fundamentally neutral, but when used to amplify the poisons, the freedom becomes evil. When we use the freedom to amplify generosity, openness and wisdom, the freedom becomes the ultimate good.

This site is not completely free. It is moderated because people do not always abide by the good and we, as Buddhists, only wish to generate good karma. To the extent that we can prevent you from creating negative karma at this site, we do so, for the sake of the community, and also for you. You should recognize that this is actually consistent with Nichiren's teachings in documents such as Rissho Ankoku Ron.

This is not a bar on critique and disagreement. Critique and disagreement are welcome here - we want people with differing views to explore these through frank, but friendly, discussions. We may not come to agreements, but hopefully we come to mutual understanding of each other's positions. Be confident that in open exchanges, your point has made its mark in the other's mind. If your point is true, trust in cause and effect to bear out. You do not need to beat others into submission if your positions are in fact correct. BuddhaDharma is tenacious that way.

Before the disagreements get personal, let it go. Again, I refer to Nichiren - if after making your point three times and your disagreement remains unreconciled, withdraw and leave it be.

If you do not abide by the rules of this site, be advised that you will be subjected to the varying forms of reprimand, including restrictions on your posting privileges as well as suspensions and bans.

As a moderator, I am the main person reviewing this forum. However, I am not infallible and I will make mistakes. Please do not hesitate to raise concerns about my moderation with me or with other moderators at this site. I assure you, your concerns will find a fair hearing.

I profoundly appreciate all of you who participate here. I think that the discussions we have here are helpful to participants and lurkers as we turn over ideas and controversies with each other. To continue to ensure the value, let's make efforts to be kind to each other, especially when we disagree.
“Once you have given up the ghost, everything follows with dead certainty, even in the midst of chaos.”
-Henry Miller

"Language is the liquid that we're all dissolved in.
Great for solving problems, after it creates the problems."
-Modest Mouse

"Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world!"
-The Grateful Dead

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Re: A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

Post by CedarTree » Sun Jul 16, 2017 5:28 pm

Queequeg wrote:I ask everyone, before posting in this forum, or any forum here at DharmaWheel, to please review the Terms of Service for this site as well as the rules for this forum.

Please keep in mind that despite any doctrinal differences, we are all dharma brothers and sisters, and more fundamentally, fellow human beings deserving of profound respect. Recall that Bodhisattva Sadaparibhuta (Never Disparaging; Fukyo) honored all beings as Buddhas and that this was the cause of Shakyamuni's enlightenment in the remote past. Further recall that Nichiren taught that the Daimoku he taught is the same teaching as Bodhisattva Sadaparibhuta.

Before hitting the "Submit" button, think about what you are about to post three times - as Nichiren counseled we should do before saying anything. I will be the first to admit that I need to take this counsel to heart more consistently.

Consider, are you adding substance to the discussion, or are you just venting and giving voice to reactionary emotions? Can what you are wishing to express be conveyed in an artful and constructive way? Is the personally directed comment embedded in your post necessary to your argument? Does that insult or barb encourage open and friendly discussion, or does it have the effect of raising ire and causing enmity? Keep in mind that once discussions take a turn down to personal antagonism, substantive discussions become difficult or impossible and all we are left is an exchange of venom.

The subjects discussed on this forum often touch matters of deep concern to us, and therefore it is even more critical that we keep in mind first and foremost the profound connections we have to each other - we have all been each other's mother and father, son and daughter, lovers and friends. As Sadaparibhuta always honored people, each of our posts should do the same, whether we agree with each other, and even more importantly, when we disagree.

There are many forums across the internet where we are free to indulge our basest impulses, call each other names, spew hate and and unleash venomous insults. If you wish to engage in such demeritorious conduct - which you should understand leaves a deep karmic stain on your life - do it elsewhere. It is not welcome here.

We should realize that the freedom of the internet - indeed life - is fundamentally neutral, but when used to amplify the poisons, the freedom becomes evil. When we use the freedom to amplify generosity, openness and wisdom, the freedom becomes the ultimate good.

This site is not completely free. It is moderated because people do not always abide by the good and we, as Buddhists, only wish to generate good karma. To the extent that we can prevent you from creating negative karma at this site, we do so, for the sake of the community, and also for you. You should recognize that this is actually consistent with Nichiren's teachings in documents such as Rissho Ankoku Ron.

This is not a bar on critique and disagreement. Critique and disagreement are welcome here - we want people with differing views to explore these through frank, but friendly, discussions. We may not come to agreements, but hopefully we come to mutual understanding of each other's positions. Be confident that in open exchanges, your point has made its mark in the other's mind. If your point is true, trust in cause and effect to bear out. You do not need to beat others into submission if your positions are in fact correct. BuddhaDharma is tenacious that way.

Before the disagreements get personal, let it go. Again, I refer to Nichiren - if after making your point three times and your disagreement remains unreconciled, withdraw and leave it be.

If you do not abide by the rules of this site, be advised that you will be subjected to the varying forms of reprimand, including restrictions on your posting privileges as well as suspensions and bans.

As a moderator, I am the main person reviewing this forum. However, I am not infallible and I will make mistakes. Please do not hesitate to raise concerns about my moderation with me or with other moderators at this site. I assure you, your concerns will find a fair hearing.

I profoundly appreciate all of you who participate here. I think that the discussions we have here are helpful to participants and lurkers as we turn over ideas and controversies with each other. To continue to ensure the value, let's make efforts to be kind to each other, especially when we disagree.
As your friend on the Soto Zen side with inspirations from Gyobutsuji Zen Monastery and Antaiji traditions I just want to say very well said :)

Queequeg, your an excellent member of the team at Dharma wheel and I hope this sub-forum can reflect half the knowledge and kindness you continually put forth :)

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Re: A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

Post by Oceano » Mon Jul 17, 2017 1:40 am

Thank you so much for this. A timely reminder - you do a wonderful job here, Queequeg!

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Re: A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

Post by Queequeg » Tue Jul 18, 2017 8:26 pm

Thank you, fellas.
“Once you have given up the ghost, everything follows with dead certainty, even in the midst of chaos.”
-Henry Miller

"Language is the liquid that we're all dissolved in.
Great for solving problems, after it creates the problems."
-Modest Mouse

"Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world!"
-The Grateful Dead

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Re: A Note on Posting in the Nichiren Forum

Post by Queequeg » Fri Nov 17, 2017 7:59 pm

In recent days, I've found occasion to refer to the excellent blog post by and old friend of the online Nichiren community, Robin Beck, on Shakubuku:
Even when it became necessary to scold an unrepentant individual, the Buddha almost always remained equanimous, polite, and cheerful. At any rate, samgrahana or shakubuku 折伏 might be best defined as a method of education, debate, or propagation in which wrong views are clearly exposed and refuted. There is no reason for this to turn into a ‘cold war’ or an incessant battle of words. After three failed attempts at rational persuasion, it might be time to move on cheerfully and remain good Dharma friends, despite differences of view.
Read the whole blog entry here:
Shakubuku and Jihad: a comparison and contrast
“Once you have given up the ghost, everything follows with dead certainty, even in the midst of chaos.”
-Henry Miller

"Language is the liquid that we're all dissolved in.
Great for solving problems, after it creates the problems."
-Modest Mouse

"Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world!"
-The Grateful Dead

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