Note around 1:50 mark, you don't have to follow every "batshit tradition or religion" of the one you were born in.
I have often felt that too. Most people just blindly accept the religion they were born into, without questioning it. People will often change political parties differing from their parents, but not their religion.
“Do not believe in something because it is reported. Do not believe in something because it has been practiced by generations or becomes a tradition or part of a culture. Do not believe in something because a scripture says it is so. Do not believe in something believing a god has inspired it. Do not believe in something a teacher tells you to. Do not believe in something because the authorities say it is so. Do not believe in hearsay, rumor, speculative opinion, public opinion, or mere acceptance to logic and inference alone. Help yourself, accept as completely true only that which is praised by the wise and which you test for yourself and know to be good for yourself and others.”