dude wrote:you got me, I don't have a source.
I had to think for a long time to remember the right wording, but I never did find the exact words in my books. Come to think of it, it's from memory so you could consider it my paraphrase.
Well, I think you did a good job remembering,
and if your paraphrase makes the vows personal
and memorable for you, so much the better.