making meaning of life
Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2014 3:58 pm
What does Buddhism say about one's act of making meaning of life experiences?
Are there any suttas / sutras, teachings, dharma talks or comments anyone might share with me about this?
This morning I wake up to discover my mind is still processing yesterday's social experiences.
I realize I have been (unconsciously) trying to "make meaning" of everything that I've experienced.
And in realizing this ( I'm faced with choices) and feel uncertain.
At the moment I feel like I'm in a rather unfamiliar (fuzzy) mental space right now.
This is hard to describe! I'm not sure what I'm expressing... but here goes...
What is the "right thought" of the buddha-nature when experiencing what other people say and do?
- I can focus on the positive moments scattered throughout my days
- I can 'make meaning' that leads to my own unhappiness...
- I can let the experience come and go without grasping at anything....
When I experience an event, I have the opportunity to
- assume the best of other people (play naïve)
- add up the apparent 'facts' of 'reality' and jump to a conclusion
- I can just go back to the breath and maintain my meditative empty state of mind (equanimity).
For example, I may see or hear something that I apparently dislike which leads me to feel further pain or unhappiness with "the way things are" in my life, such as....
- If I see an one acquaintance texting another friend of mine who apparently lied when they said to me they don't have a cellphone.
- If I hear my spouse describe their story of how we first met... I can quickly conclude that my parter has negative feelings about our relationship.
- I watch a friend apparently ignore me while conversing. This subtle behaviour is something that I may 'make meaning' of that ends up me concluding this person I thought was a friend, really doesn't value me.
- I am confronted by a subordinate co-worker who is completely overstepping the job responsibility they have (again), keeping me from doing mine properly, and bossing me around .... it makes my blood boil....
While we are travelling the path that leads to awakening, we practice "right thought".
I understand a large part of this involves "unlearning", as we discover how to 'wake up' to the true nature of reality.
The more I am willing to learn and practice the eightfold path... there's a part of me that is wondering if I'm not 'turning off' parts of my mind that would have reacted more quickly. I fear I might be getting 'dumber'
Am I performing my own mental lobotomy with a psychological scalpel?
Are there any suttas / sutras, teachings, dharma talks or comments anyone might share with me about this?
This morning I wake up to discover my mind is still processing yesterday's social experiences.
I realize I have been (unconsciously) trying to "make meaning" of everything that I've experienced.
And in realizing this ( I'm faced with choices) and feel uncertain.
At the moment I feel like I'm in a rather unfamiliar (fuzzy) mental space right now.
This is hard to describe! I'm not sure what I'm expressing... but here goes...
What is the "right thought" of the buddha-nature when experiencing what other people say and do?
- I can focus on the positive moments scattered throughout my days
- I can 'make meaning' that leads to my own unhappiness...
- I can let the experience come and go without grasping at anything....
When I experience an event, I have the opportunity to
- assume the best of other people (play naïve)
- add up the apparent 'facts' of 'reality' and jump to a conclusion
- I can just go back to the breath and maintain my meditative empty state of mind (equanimity).
For example, I may see or hear something that I apparently dislike which leads me to feel further pain or unhappiness with "the way things are" in my life, such as....
- If I see an one acquaintance texting another friend of mine who apparently lied when they said to me they don't have a cellphone.
- If I hear my spouse describe their story of how we first met... I can quickly conclude that my parter has negative feelings about our relationship.
- I watch a friend apparently ignore me while conversing. This subtle behaviour is something that I may 'make meaning' of that ends up me concluding this person I thought was a friend, really doesn't value me.
- I am confronted by a subordinate co-worker who is completely overstepping the job responsibility they have (again), keeping me from doing mine properly, and bossing me around .... it makes my blood boil....
While we are travelling the path that leads to awakening, we practice "right thought".
I understand a large part of this involves "unlearning", as we discover how to 'wake up' to the true nature of reality.
The more I am willing to learn and practice the eightfold path... there's a part of me that is wondering if I'm not 'turning off' parts of my mind that would have reacted more quickly. I fear I might be getting 'dumber'
Am I performing my own mental lobotomy with a psychological scalpel?