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Tirisilex wrote: ↑
Mon Sep 18, 2017 9:09 pm
Am I doing something bad by eliminating sex completely out of my life?
From the Dhammika Sutta
"Now I shall tell you the household’s rule,
by practising which one’s a good hearkener [...]
Let the intelligent person live a celibate life,
as one would avoid a pit of glowing coals;
but being unable to live the celibate life,
go not beyond the bounds with others’ partners."
Tirisilex wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 22, 2017 8:00 pm
So I'm still open to romantic relationships.
Still open to suffering.
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Some people are asexual. Whether that's you, only you can say.
namu amida butsu
OṂ HRIYADHE SARWA TATHĀGATA HRIDAYA GARBHE / DZOLA DHARMADHATU GARBHE / SANG HARANA ĀYUḤ SANGŚHODHAYA / PĀPAṂ SARWA TATHĀGATA SAMENDRA UṢHṆĪKHA BIMALE BIŚHUDDHE SWĀHĀ
The Buddhas and Bodhisattvas have unobstructed vision in all directions.
Everything is in their presence; and I stand in front of them. -- Shantideva
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it sounds like your therapist might be letting his own biases get in the way. As Vasana said, what is important is how does your feelings of being asexual affect your life. In mental health diagnosis how something impacts or impairs a person's functioning is really the most important factor.
It could be that trying to fit into the "dominant cultural narrative" that sex is an essential part of life and happiness might be what is bothering you.
you're the expert in your own life so only you may be able to uncover the truth.
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